By Elaine M.D., a Professional Dating and
Relationship Coach and a Best Selling Author
Is Your Man REALLY Toxic?
you read this entire page you will learn the signs of a toxic man and
will be able to determine whether your man
is truly toxic! Most importantly, you will learn why men act in a
way that creates toxicity in a relationship, and what
CAN DO to
Have you ever
had this happen to you? You meet a great man who you think might be the
man of your
is everything you’ve ever wanted in a man and you can't help but wonder
he is still single. You just can’t believe that a great catch such as
your man is still not taken; that some other woman hasn’t snatched him
He may be
very good looking or extremely successful, or both. He appears very
confident and charismatic. He is always the life of the party. He is a
dating, maybe even see him with certain regularity or even start a
You seem to
have a wonderful connection when you are with him. He may be keeping in
touch regularly. He may be telling you all the right things that you
want to hear. Your relationship seems perfect. It is almost too good
to be true.
just when you think you are deeply in love with this man, your
intuition starts telling you something’s
not right. Some of his actions start to not make much sense to
you. And what doesn’t make any sense to you is his INCONSISTENCY.
you set a date to go out but don’t confirm a specific time. You text
him the day you are supposed to meet, but don’t hear back. He simply
disappears and you are left wondering if you are still meeting. Or
maybe you have a date, you re-arrange your schedule to see him, but he
calls you to cancel on a short notice.
Or maybe he
suddenly stops calling after all the great dates and romantic
experiences you had, or calls you whenever he feels like it; sometimes
with many excuses and at other times with no explanation at all.
times you may be getting along fine and suddenly he is gone for days at
a time with no phone call, then he comes strolling back in and all
should be as it was before. It makes you feel worthless and all alone.
You feel uncertain, miserable, and left wondering what you did wrong.
times, however, he makes you feel very happy, but then there are other
times when your relationship makes you feel sad, worthless, fearful,
and apprehensive, more often than it makes you happy.
It makes you
always wonder what’s going on, and this uncertainty drives you crazy.
You may be suspecting
that there is something he isn’t telling you.
another woman, or maybe he is still not ready to commit to a
relationship and wants to date around; but he is telling you
that he isn’t seeing anybody else.
wondering if he is losing interest in you, or whether you came off too
strong and he pulled back. But when you see him again, things are going
great and you have a peace of mind again, only to be tormented by his
silence or by his actions later.
You start to
feel fearful and doubtful, and you are telling yourself that this is
normal, and is the way it should be in a new relationship. But then you
look at other couples, and they don’t seem to have it like that.
You may even start questioning
your own sanity, thinking that you are the one over-reacting.
This man is
so promising, but at times he really hurts you by his inconsistency. At
times he tells you all the wonderful things you want to hear which make
you feel great about your relationship, but at other times you say
something seemingly "normal" and he gets upset.
One minute he
will be saying how much he loves you and can't live without you, and
the next he's telling you that you smother him and he needs some space.
One day he can’t stop complimenting you, and the next he criticizes you
and puts you down seemingly for no reason, or for some insignificant
walking on eggshells thinking about every word you say and everything
you do. You start being afraid to say or do the wrong thing waiting for
the other shoe to drop.
And when you
try talking to him about your concerns he makes you feel like you are
the one over-reacting. He may even be telling you that he is fine with
everything, and you are the one who is crazy. He is turned off by your
tears and gets mean when you are upset with him.
situations described above are familiar to you, you may be dating a
you feel like you are walking on eggshells then your relationship is
toxic and so is the man you are involved with. If you worry that you
will say the wrong thing and drive him away then you need to seriously
look at your relationship and decide what you want to do about that.
that are associated with dating a toxic man can range from sadness
fear. And you know that a good healthy relationship is supposed
to make you happy not fearful, beyond insecure and sad. Staying
in a relationship on these terms and keeping it the way it is may
hardly be an option. If you don’t do anything to turn the direction
your relationship is going in right now, it will only get worse!
you’ve tried to find information on how to deal with a toxic man in
your life, you may have come across many resources that tell you that
you cannot change someone, and that the best way to deal with a toxic
man is to leave him and not look back.
It hurts me
to see so many women being told to leave the men they love, when in
fact, any woman can learn to turn
the tables and transform a toxic relationship into a happy committed
relationship and a very satisfying marriage.
career as a dating and relationship coach I have talked to thousands of
women who were in relationships with toxic men, women who were dumped
by toxic men, women who left toxic men, as well as women who
transformed their toxic relationships to get the relationships of their
gave up on their toxic men and left ended up either single and alone,
or in another toxic relationship.
If you don’t
learn how to transform your relationship to make it the relationship of
your dreams, chances are, you’ll still end up with a toxic man over
again. Truth is that toxic men have many great qualities, and those are
the qualities we become attracted to. They usually go hand in hand with
other qualities that make these men toxic.
borderline arrogance; independence is borderline aloofness.
stand a man who is insecure, and yet, when you meet one who appears
super-confident, which makes him irresistibly attractive, you end up
with a toxic man.
want a man who is attached to you at the hip, and yet, when your man
seems to "forget you exist" rather often, you become paranoid and
You want a
man who is incredibly charming and sexy, and yet you are upset when you
find him checking out or flirting with other women.
You want a
man who is assertive, and yet you are upset when he tells you what to do.
You want a
man who is strong and silent, and yet you get upset when he is an
that there are no good men left out there, except for the "nice guys" –
a term used to describe social inept nerds.
are left with 3 choices:
in your toxic relationship and continuously get hurt
your toxic relationship and end up alone, with a "nice guy" you are not
attracted to, or with yet another toxic man – different guy, same
3. Learn how to transform
your toxic relationship and teach your toxic man to treat you
And I can
guarantee you that there is a sure way to change your relationship and
transform a toxic man into a loving, supportive, committed, and
consistent partner, because what I have learned from years of
experience as a dating and relationship coach is that it
is the woman
who ultimately dictates the direction of the relationship.
heard the expression "The man is the head, the woman is the neck. The
woman will turn the man whichever way she wants"?
So, if your
man is being a jerk toward you right now, what you need to understand
is that he is only acting this way because you are the one ALLOWING the
toxicity. And it’s not that you are condoning this behavior; it’s just
that you don’t know how to stop it, turn the tables, and to
encourage your man to willingly
and eagerly make changes!
Toxic men are
only toxic with their women who allow that, while being on their best
behavior with women who know exactly how to handle a toxic man and who
demand RESPECT and COMMITMENT!
You need to
decide whether you want to leave the relationship with your man or to
CHANGE YOUR ACTIONS to TRANSFORM YOUR TOXIC MAN!
Yes, it CAN BE DONE!
Toxic men can
become VERY LOVING and DEVOTED to one
woman but only when that woman learns how to enter his INNER
Have you ever
ended a relationship with a toxic man in the past only to find out that
the man who was toxic to you married another woman and made her VERY
If so, you
probably wondered, what was it about her that you didn’t have?
tortured yourself wondering what you could have done differently to
save your relationship and transform your toxic man into a loving and
devoted boyfriend or husband he’s become with his new woman.
still have a feeling that men
do change for the right woman because
you’ve seen it happen with other women. You just haven’t made it happen
for you yet!
other women have been where you are and were able to learn how to deal
with a toxic man to not just make a relationship merely
to even MAKE IT THRIVE.
Yes, a toxic
relationship can leave you feeling sad, anxious, fearful, insecure, and
eventually mad and restless if
you don’t do anything about it.
you feel regretful for the rest of your life if you give up on your
man now, leave the relationship and don’t do anything to change
the women who have succeeded at transforming their relationships with
toxic men know will TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP and your man from toxic
to loving and committed!
learn how to do this, you will put your competition behind because you
the only one who can truly CONNECT WITH YOUR MAN on a DEEP LEVEL!
At that point
you will FEEL SAFE AND SECURE in your relationship, because you will
know without a doubt that your man will never find a woman like you!
give you an incredible power in your relationship! You will finally
HAVE THE CERTAINTY from knowing that NO MATTER WHAT your man will be
devoted to you, and NO OTHER WOMAN WILL EVER BE ABLE TO STEAL HIM FROM
to learn things about toxic men that you must know if you decide that
you want to keep your man and TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP into the
relationship of your dreams!
The Biggest Mistake Women Make With a
you toxic man is evil is the biggest mistake you can make in a
relationship with toxic men!
The reason he
acting this way with you is NOT because he doesn’t care about you!
your toxic man is NOT what he appears to be!
Have you ever
noticed that the way your man acts toward other people is completely
different from the way he is acting toward you?
If so, you
may be wondering, "why is he so different with me?" You want him to be
the same way he is with others, but it seems that the whole world
thinks of him as a wonderful man and a great catch, and you are the
only one who sees his "ugly side"!
you are seeing this side is because HE FEELS INSECURE WITH YOU!
Men who are
toxic act this way not because they don’t love you. It’s rather
opposite. Toxic men are only toxic with women who are very special to
It may be
sickening to realize that you are the only one causing your man such
drastic change in his behavior, but the reality is that he is acting
this way with you because you
are more important to him than anybody
In fact, YOU
HAVE MORE POWER OVER HIM THAN YOU THINK!
only become toxic when they feel that they can’t control their emotions
around certain women AND when those women don’t know how to handle such
behavior from their men.
become anxious, insecure and fearful, and that feeds a toxic man’s
and confirms him. Without such behavior a toxic man will think that the
emotions he is feeling for a woman are out of control and it scares him.
that he has to be in control of not only the relationship but of you as
well. He will want to control everything that you do, but not want you
to control what he does.
being possessive, and being controlling go hand in hand in a toxic
relationship. He feels that it's okay for him not to call and disappear
but if you do the same thing it is an entirely different story and you
could be accused of cheating on him or worse.
A man like
this may criticize everything about you because he
feels too unsure of
your feelings for him. This behavior makes the woman he is with
like she is not good enough and in the end she may have problems
trusting other men. And this is what a toxic man ultimately wants.
He will try
to bring you down, so that you won’t leave him or trade him for someone
else. But when you
CONNECT TO HIS INNER WORLD, you will see a DIFFERENT MAN inside of him.
like this knows that only THE RIGHT WOMAN will see behind his outer
image - behind his fašade.
signals is the toxic man's way of keeping you in check. A toxic man
sending mixed signals is a way to keep you wondering as well.
problem with toxic men is that they may display anger for no reason at
all. Many women walk on eggshells with a toxic man because the least
little thing can set him off and he will get angry. But I will teach you how to
deal with a man's anger in a way that will make him respect you!
If the idea
of your man getting angry makes you scared, this is because he’s got
you under his thumb. Many women have no idea how to handle a man’s
anger and become too preoccupied with their own actions in an attempt
to always keep him happy and content.
But this is
certainly not the way to gain his respect.
At the same
time, if you make a negative comment about his behavior he will start
blaming you for his flaws.
You are damn
if you do, damn if you don’t.
You may be
spinning your wheels trying to please him, but it doesn’t work. He
keeps pushing the envelope to see how much you can take.
At the same
time if you start contradicting him, he has no qualms about dropping
you like a hot potato.
situation seems like there is no way out other than out of the
But when you
think about his other qualities, he doesn’t seem that bad. And when he
is nice to you, he is REALLY nice. In fact, he is a great catch overall
and only even he didn’t treat you the way he does some times, he’d be
successful, charismatic in public, good looking, and overall the kind
of men other women will want to date and marry.
When he is
not mean to you, he is rather charming and attentive. He is fun, and
you get along well some of the time.
He is just
too good to leave, and there are many good things about him that you
know you will surely regret losing.
thing is that if you decide to leave him, he will find someone else,
and eventually he will settle down with a woman who knows how to make
him give her the treatment she wants.
see them happily married, you will torture yourself thinking that it
could have been YOU!
the years of my career as a dating and relationship coach I have
learned what REALLY works for transforming
a relationship with a toxic
man into a loving, committed and devoted relationship every woman
majority of my past clients came to me when they had problems in their
relationship caused by toxic men. I have been happy to see them
transform their relationships and stay with their men who became the
most loving boyfriends and husbands to them.
created a program for women who were involved with toxic men, and
wanted to learn how to stay in and transform their relationships.
This program TRANSFORMING
YOUR TOXIC RELATIONSHIP involved coming to class once a
week for three months. I had a group of women who signed up for this
We met once
a week, I heard the women’s problems, advised them on how to solve
them, and then they reported back with the results.
I have to say
that the results were amazing!
also had the support of each other, and together we consistently worked
on improving their relationships.
women graduated from the program their relationships were nothing short
of phenomenal. We have seen all kinds of toxic men transformed.
concluded is that sometimes
the toxic guy just doesn’t know what makes
you happy and needs your guidance. And some are broken inside
a loving heart of a woman to encourage them to transform.
man doesn’t realize that the way he is acting is toxic, or maybe he is
just waiting for the right woman who can see INSIDE HIM.
some amazing changes in some very toxic men.
program became more and more popular I started getting inquiries from
women all over the area who also wanted to experience such amazing
transformations in their relationships. And the more women joined, the
more I perfected the program by testing the best strategies and
selecting the ones that were the most effective every time.
some point I realized that there were more women than I could help due
to geographical limitations. You see, since the ongoing nature of this
class, not everyone who needed help could come to my location in
California for weekly sessions, especially women who didn’t even live
in the same country.
due to limited availability of space and high costs of doing
brick-and-mortar based business, such as paying for conference room
rent, etc. which required charging high fees to clients of this
program, this course was not available to every woman who wanted it.
So, I decided
to make this program available in a form of an electronic book (e-book).
And now you
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Here Are Just Some Of The Things You
Why Toxic Men Hurt The Women They Love and
How To Stop That
What You Should Know About Your Toxic Man In
Order to Change Him
Three Faces of a Toxic Man
Women That Toxic Men Love
Why He Choose You
How to Tell If He Really Loves You
... and much more!
The secrets you will
learn in this program are powerful!
This program is
packed with secrets – it’s the real deal,
which has transformed formerly toxic relationships into happy and
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Just read the table of
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or dating a toxic man?
men change for the right woman and I've seen it happen time and
it happen for you!